In continuation of the bulletin series that began a few weeks ago, I want to begin with another legal disclaimer. Often times Holy Mother Church does not give an exact answer of when or how someone should do something, because there are all kinds of pastoral exceptions that are made and speak to the complexity of individual circumstances that come down to making an individual prudential judgment. The advice I am about to share this week is simply meant to be something for you to inform your own conscience while making those prudential decisions regarding the mass and the Eucharist.
The most common questions people have concerning the mass are, “How late can I come to mass and still fulfill my Sunday obligation”, and “How late can I show up and still receive Holy Communion?” Now if you ask another priest this question you might get a different answer. But for myself and Fr. Seth, we are of the opinion (Personally I think that it’s a good moderate opinion) that you should be there by the Gospel at a minimum. As there are two parts to the mass, the Liturgy of the Word, and the Liturgy of the Eucharist, you really do not attend mass if you miss one or the other.
If you accidentally miss the opening prayer or the first reading due to weather or you have to wrangle small children into the car to get to mass, you can probably still receive Holy Communion because your intention was to make it to mass on time. However, if you miss the Gospel because of unforeseen or unintended circumstances, it’s probable that you did fulfill your Sunday obligation. Now the love of our Lord would suggest that you should find another mass time if possible, and the abundance of variable mass times we have in our city would make that a reasonable sacrifice to make, but a one-off mishap shouldn’t weigh on your conscience. If this does happen, I would recommend that you don’t receive the Eucharist out of reverence for the sacrament. Remember that reception of Holy Communion is not necessary to fulfill your Sunday obligation, if it was then people like my sister who only receives once a year due to medical conditions would be unable to fulfil their Sunday obligation.
Finally, as someone entrusted with care for your souls, I want to note there are two extremes that I have observed within our parishes that need to be formally addressed. Now I hate to single out a particular mass time, but if you frequent the 6:00pm mass that is shared with the UMD Newman Center, you should not show up 15min late just because you do not want to socialize with the youths or the people sitting next to you at the beginning of mass. Simply when you commit to a mass you commit to everything that is offered at that particular mass. Remember that the mass begins at 6:00 and you should strive and try your best to show up on time for the 6:00 mass.
On the other hand you should not leave mass early. It seems that no matter how many times I preach about it, it still happens often. Both Fr. Seth and I make deliberate efforts to keep our homilies short and the masses under one hour so unless there is an emergency, or Father dies at the altar, there just really isn’t a good reason to leave mass early. As a matter of perspective please remember that your Sunday obligation takes up about 1/168th of your week which is a half of a percent of your week. For the God who has given us so much, we shouldn’t think twice about giving him that hour of our time.
I pray that everyone is staying warm, and may God bless you always!
In Christ our hope,
Fr. Jacob Toma